>Of added benefit, chatting over IM allows you to build your conversational skills if they are lacking. These are not too different from the skills used when chatting on the phone or in-person. This is more food for thought as you arPros of IM:

- helps build comfort, connection, attraction, and anticipation before chatting on the phone or meeting in person
- good for girls that are around a computer a lot and/or live with their parents/roommates

Cons of IM:

- requires very little investment from the girl, so she can still ignore you
- takes a bit more time and skill to use successfully

Pros of phone:

- more efficient
- easier
- good for women that are not around a computer a lot

Cons of phone:

- has the potential to infringe on a woman's comfort level too soon, and can result in easier flaking
- doesn't build as much connection and anticipation

As you can see, it largely depends on the individual. I know guys who happen to use messenger a lot and they love it. For me personally, I have met many, many women whom I chatted with over IM first. There is no hard or fast rule.

Of added benefit, chatting over IM allows you to build your conversational skills if they are lacking. These are not too different from the skills used when chatting on the phone or in-person. This is more food for thought as you are

ons of IM:

- requires very little investment from the girl, so she can still ignore you
- takes a bit more time and skill to use successfully

Pros of phone:

- more efficient
- easier
- good for women that are not around a computer a lot

Cons of phone:

- has the potential to infringe on a woman's comfort level too soon, and can result in easier flaking
- doesn't build as much connection and anticipation

As you can see, it largely depends on the individual. I know guys who happen to use messenger a lot and they love it. For me personally, I have met many, many women whom I chatted with over IM first. There is no hard or fast rule.

Of added benefit, chatting over IM allows you to build your conversational skills if they are lacking. These are not too different from the skills used when chatting on the phone or in-person. This is more food for thought as you ar

that are not around a computer a lot

Cons of phone:

- has the potential to infringe on a woman's comfort level too soon, and can result in easier flaking
- doesn't build as much connection and anticipation

As you can see, it largely depends on the individual. I know guys who happen to use messenger a lot and they love it. For me personally, I have met many, many women whom I chatted with over IM first. There is no hard or fast rule.

Of added benefit, chatting over IM allows you to build your conversational skills if they are lacking. These are not too different from the skills used when chatting on the phone or in-person. This is more food for thought as you ar

ou can see, it largely depends on the individual. I know guys who happen to use messenger a lot and they love it. For me personally, I have met many, many women whom I chatted with over IM first. There is no hard or fast rule.

Of added benefit, chatting over IM allows you to build your conversational skills if they are lacking. These are not too different from the skills used when chatting on the phone or in-person. This is more food for thought as you ar

>Of added benefit, chatting over IM allows you to build your conversational skills if they are lacking. These are not too different from the skills used when chatting on the phone or in-person. This is more food for thought as you are still deciding which one is best to use.

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