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    Power and the Doctor
    Patients expect and often want powerful doctors; that is a doctor who has reassuring authority, who is apparently capable and whose pronouncements can reduce anxiety.One definition of medical or 'Aesculapean' authority divides it into three parts:Sapiential, Moral and Charismatic.These words are somewhat off putting at first meeting but bear with me.Sapiential authorityThis can be defined as the right to be heard based on knowledge or expertise, and means doctors must know or at least appear to know more about medicine than their patients. This can only be one part of the doctor's authority, however, as a biochemist may know more about a particular branch of medicine, but it is to a physician that a patient turns when in need.Moral authorityThis is the right to significantly control and direct patients, based on doing what society expects of them as doctors. To keep their moral authority, doctors must always act with the good of the patient as their paramount concern. This is derived from the Hippocratic credo. In addition, societies generally revere doctors, meaning that their behaviour is seen as socially right as well as individually good. This is a powerful combination.Charismatic authorityThis is the most difficult of the three concepts, and is similar to t
    I know you have had one of those brilliant moments where you knew the world needed a particular product or service and wished that “someone would make a…” and one month or a few years later you saw the very item that you wished would be made on an infomercial.

    You are a walking, breathing, thinking, gold mine (mind) and somewhere along the line you have allowed your mine (mind) to be shut down or you allowed someone else to gather and extract the precious jewels that are within you by going to work everyday and giving away your talents and jewels for meager earnings or less than full value. You now have been given permission to extract the jewels from your own mind (mine) and for your own use toward the betterment of society. Take back your mine (mind)! Not only is it a terrible thing to waste, but an even worse thing to give away.

    2. The second principle is to Elicit.

    (Ask)

    Our third principle is to ask. Ask what? Ask who? You might ask! J You must first begin by asking yourself questions. No

    Trading Commodity Futures - Intuitively Day Trading The S&P 500 And E-Mini - PART 4
    Every trading market has its own special patterns and oddities that will communicate its intentions. Patterns don't always work every time of course, but even that can be a clue of underlying extreme weakness or strength. Just like knowing a spouse well, learning to read your special market can pay dividends. Read on to learn more...More Observations From My Trading Notes:"After a BIG, major e-mini decline, wait for the secondary test – the first spike is TOO EARLY – the second test pays off faster and may even be a better buy. It’s also a chance to see if the ticks confirm a higher bottom, volume comes in and price action looks like the market is going much lower to scare the sheep. If this scary secondary low does not hold, then something is definitely wrong and the market is likely going MUCH lower afterwards."Yes, the old panic and double bottom. “Scaring the sheep” is one of my favorite sayings with the e-mini market. The sheep usually herd themselves into the middle ranges. They love to buy and sell there to feel comfortable.The middle is a nice place to enter at first, but actually, the risk is higher later. When the e-mini market swings hard to the rails, it always dumps some of the sheep out of the truck onto the road for the wolves to get. The other sheep are watching
    L.E.A.R.N.

    (Listen, Elicit (be drawn forth, what is latent or potential), Ask, Repeat and Nurture)

    Do you currently live in the town where you grew up or spent most of your formative years? Do you “go home for vacation or visits to family members” in the city or town of your upbringing? Have you moved to another nearby city or another part of town?

    If you answered yes to any of those questions, I ask you: How does it make you feel to either be there or go there? What do you most remember about that place? What about the way the neighborhood sounded? Or the way that popular restaurant in town smelled? Do you remember the way the grass felt as you played tag or hide and seek? What about the taste of bologna sandwiches? Remember?

    If you can recall any of that, congratulations you are human and had a childhood. If not, then welcome to Earth and I hope your stay here is a wonderful one. I began by asking those questions, to get us to remember some of the things from our youth.

    While growing up I’m sure you have had your share of “older people” (parents, teachers, neighbors, etc.) telling you what to do and what not to do. And as you got older you learned that some of what you were told actually could have saved you some bumps and bruises. However many people spend a great deal of time talking instead of listening.

    Listening is rarely taught in school and while most of our parents or guardians demanded that we listen to them, no one ever taught us how to listen. I mean sure we were taught how to eat with utensils, how to tie our shoes or how to say ‘please’ and ‘thank you’. But never taught how to do what most people insisted that we should do: LISTEN.

    Many opportunities have passed us by in life that could have accelerated our personal development, financial strength and relationship ties by simply knowing how to listen. Not so much listening to other people, but listening to ourselves. I’m talking about that inner voice (IV) that speaks to us when we are presented with an empowering opportunity or path and that inner conversation umpire (ICU) that we hear when a decision has to be made.

    So the first principle in order to properly L.E.A.R.N. is to develop proper listening skills.

    (Listen)

    You do know that 1+1=9 and because you know that you should be saying to yourself (internally) this guy must be crazy because 1+1=2. What happened when you read that 1+1=9? What happened not only physically but also more importantly psychologically? You should have experienced a bit of dissonance at my making such a mathematical mistake. Internally a voice (feeling) should have spoken to you and informed you of the error in my equation. Did you listen to that voice? Of course you did and by doing so you immediately corrected the error and internally restated the correct answer, which is 2. Take time everyday to pay special attention to that inner dialog that is happening. Now do not mistake disempowered self-talk or ego driven delusions for that true voice within that is there to assist you in your growth and development. Meditation, chanting, enlightened music or just silence will assist you in gaining a better ear for your “inner conversation umpire”. Begin learning to trust that “gut feeling” or that “something inside that is trying to tell you …” and know that this inner voice will not guide you wrong. Spend a few minutes each day quieting your mind. No thoughts of what you have done, will do or plan to do, just a few minutes of quiet time focused internally without judgment or analysis.

    1. So remember the first principle is to Listen.

    (Elicit)

    The next principle after learning to listen is to elicit. Did you know that there is an unlimited supply of brilliance inside of you and that you are pure potentiality? There is no end to the amount of enlightened ideas that can come from each and every person.

    By learning to listen you will be forming the necessary foundation to elicit or extract those enlightened ideas from within yourself. This is true education (to extract what is within). I know you have had one of those brilliant moments where you knew the world needed a particular product or service and wished that “someone would make a…” and one month or a few years later you saw the very item that you wished would be made on an infomercial.

    You are a walking, breathing, thinking, gold mine (mind) and somewhere along the line you have allowed your mine (mind) to be shut down or you allowed someone else to gather and extract the precious jewels that are within you by going to work everyday and giving away your talents and jewels for meager earnings or less than full value. You now have been given permission to extract the jewels from your own mind (mine) and for your own use toward the betterment of society. Take back your mine (mind)! Not only is it a terrible thing to waste, but an even worse thing to give away.

    2. The second principle is to Elicit.

    (Ask)

    Our third principle is to ask. Ask what? Ask who? You might ask! J You must first begin by asking yourself questions. Now

    Medicine Is The Third Leading Cause Of Death In United States
    The American Medical Association’s own esteemed research journal, the Journal of the AMA or JAMA has revealed a frightening statistic: In the United States alone, the third leading cause of death by any means is medically caused death.What this means is that heart disease is our number one killer, cancer is our number two killer, and the conscientious following of medical protocols is the number three killer of people in our culture; a frightening fact for those of us who blindly accept a doctor’s advice as bible truth.Here is how these deaths played out statistically, according to Dr. Barbara Starfield of the Johns Hopkins School of Hygiene and Public Health:- 12,000 patients died due to unnecessary surgery- 7,000 patients died due to medication errors in hospitals- 20,000 patients died due to other errors in hospitals- 80,000 patients died due to infections in hospitals- 106,000 patients died due to non-error, negative effects of drugsThese total to 225,000 deaths per year from iatrogenic causes!Iatrogenic is a word that means death caused by the care of a physician. Take a long look at the 106,000 people who died from non-error: these are people who died taking the right pill at the right time, exactly as their doctor had told them to. Take a moment to consid
    I’m sure you have had your share of “older people” (parents, teachers, neighbors, etc.) telling you what to do and what not to do. And as you got older you learned that some of what you were told actually could have saved you some bumps and bruises. However many people spend a great deal of time talking instead of listening.

    Listening is rarely taught in school and while most of our parents or guardians demanded that we listen to them, no one ever taught us how to listen. I mean sure we were taught how to eat with utensils, how to tie our shoes or how to say ‘please’ and ‘thank you’. But never taught how to do what most people insisted that we should do: LISTEN.

    Many opportunities have passed us by in life that could have accelerated our personal development, financial strength and relationship ties by simply knowing how to listen. Not so much listening to other people, but listening to ourselves. I’m talking about that inner voice (IV) that speaks to us when we are presented with an empowering opportunity or path and that inner conversation umpire (ICU) that we hear when a decision has to be made.

    So the first principle in order to properly L.E.A.R.N. is to develop proper listening skills.

    (Listen)

    You do know that 1+1=9 and because you know that you should be saying to yourself (internally) this guy must be crazy because 1+1=2. What happened when you read that 1+1=9? What happened not only physically but also more importantly psychologically? You should have experienced a bit of dissonance at my making such a mathematical mistake. Internally a voice (feeling) should have spoken to you and informed you of the error in my equation. Did you listen to that voice? Of course you did and by doing so you immediately corrected the error and internally restated the correct answer, which is 2. Take time everyday to pay special attention to that inner dialog that is happening. Now do not mistake disempowered self-talk or ego driven delusions for that true voice within that is there to assist you in your growth and development. Meditation, chanting, enlightened music or just silence will assist you in gaining a better ear for your “inner conversation umpire”. Begin learning to trust that “gut feeling” or that “something inside that is trying to tell you …” and know that this inner voice will not guide you wrong. Spend a few minutes each day quieting your mind. No thoughts of what you have done, will do or plan to do, just a few minutes of quiet time focused internally without judgment or analysis.

    1. So remember the first principle is to Listen.

    (Elicit)

    The next principle after learning to listen is to elicit. Did you know that there is an unlimited supply of brilliance inside of you and that you are pure potentiality? There is no end to the amount of enlightened ideas that can come from each and every person.

    By learning to listen you will be forming the necessary foundation to elicit or extract those enlightened ideas from within yourself. This is true education (to extract what is within). I know you have had one of those brilliant moments where you knew the world needed a particular product or service and wished that “someone would make a…” and one month or a few years later you saw the very item that you wished would be made on an infomercial.

    You are a walking, breathing, thinking, gold mine (mind) and somewhere along the line you have allowed your mine (mind) to be shut down or you allowed someone else to gather and extract the precious jewels that are within you by going to work everyday and giving away your talents and jewels for meager earnings or less than full value. You now have been given permission to extract the jewels from your own mind (mine) and for your own use toward the betterment of society. Take back your mine (mind)! Not only is it a terrible thing to waste, but an even worse thing to give away.

    2. The second principle is to Elicit.

    (Ask)

    Our third principle is to ask. Ask what? Ask who? You might ask! J You must first begin by asking yourself questions. No

    Houston Foreclosures - Texas-Sized Opportunities
    The good news for first-time buyers, or those interested in investing, in the Houston residential market is that there are many Houston foreclosures for sale. These Houston foreclosures include both Veterans Administration and HUD properties which have been taken back by the government, as well as residences now owned by the banks and financial institutions which once held the mortgages on them.The types of Houston foreclosures in which you are interested will make a difference in how you buy them. Your purchasing process will be dictated by the institution which holds title to the property, so if you feel somewhat intimidated finding your way through the various rules and regulations, consult with a realtor experienced in handling the purchase of Houston foreclosures.Locating Houston ForeclosuresWalk away from any so-called”professionals” who offer provide you, for a fee, with listings of Houston foreclosures; the information is freely available from plenty of sources. If, however, you would like to have a listing of homes in pre-foreclosure, on which the owners may be in default but which have not gone into actual foreclosure yet, you’ll have to pay for it.A listing of Houston homes in pre-foreclosure may prove well worth its price, because it will direct you to highly motivated selle
    ity or path and that inner conversation umpire (ICU) that we hear when a decision has to be made.

    So the first principle in order to properly L.E.A.R.N. is to develop proper listening skills.

    (Listen)

    You do know that 1+1=9 and because you know that you should be saying to yourself (internally) this guy must be crazy because 1+1=2. What happened when you read that 1+1=9? What happened not only physically but also more importantly psychologically? You should have experienced a bit of dissonance at my making such a mathematical mistake. Internally a voice (feeling) should have spoken to you and informed you of the error in my equation. Did you listen to that voice? Of course you did and by doing so you immediately corrected the error and internally restated the correct answer, which is 2. Take time everyday to pay special attention to that inner dialog that is happening. Now do not mistake disempowered self-talk or ego driven delusions for that true voice within that is there to assist you in your growth and development. Meditation, chanting, enlightened music or just silence will assist you in gaining a better ear for your “inner conversation umpire”. Begin learning to trust that “gut feeling” or that “something inside that is trying to tell you …” and know that this inner voice will not guide you wrong. Spend a few minutes each day quieting your mind. No thoughts of what you have done, will do or plan to do, just a few minutes of quiet time focused internally without judgment or analysis.

    1. So remember the first principle is to Listen.

    (Elicit)

    The next principle after learning to listen is to elicit. Did you know that there is an unlimited supply of brilliance inside of you and that you are pure potentiality? There is no end to the amount of enlightened ideas that can come from each and every person.

    By learning to listen you will be forming the necessary foundation to elicit or extract those enlightened ideas from within yourself. This is true education (to extract what is within). I know you have had one of those brilliant moments where you knew the world needed a particular product or service and wished that “someone would make a…” and one month or a few years later you saw the very item that you wished would be made on an infomercial.

    You are a walking, breathing, thinking, gold mine (mind) and somewhere along the line you have allowed your mine (mind) to be shut down or you allowed someone else to gather and extract the precious jewels that are within you by going to work everyday and giving away your talents and jewels for meager earnings or less than full value. You now have been given permission to extract the jewels from your own mind (mine) and for your own use toward the betterment of society. Take back your mine (mind)! Not only is it a terrible thing to waste, but an even worse thing to give away.

    2. The second principle is to Elicit.

    (Ask)

    Our third principle is to ask. Ask what? Ask who? You might ask! J You must first begin by asking yourself questions. No

    Affiliate Programs - 3 Simple Steps to Get Started
    The Internet has made is easier than ever for webmasters to earn money on the side with part-time effort. Sometimes all you have to do is help drive traffic to another site and other times you simply need to help other companies make sales from their site, almost acting as a sales representative for the company. You earn a fee for the traffic you provide or make a commission for the sale you help the company make. The way to make money that I am referring to is called an Affiliate Program.An Affiliate Program is an advertising program offering a monetary incentive for webmasters to drive traffic to the publisher’s website or to help them make sales. This eliminates the necessity for the publisher to find websites with related content to list their banners. It also increases the response rate by giving the "affiliate" websites a stake in the response rate.Thousands of companies are offering different types of Affiliate Programs, whether it is to simply drive traffic to their site or to help them make sales. Either way, the great part about becoming an affiliate is you can easily create a website that targets the publisher’s content and not have to worry about shipping products, following up with customer service calls or focusing to grow a business. You can simply add a few banner ads to your site, and if
    growth and development. Meditation, chanting, enlightened music or just silence will assist you in gaining a better ear for your “inner conversation umpire”. Begin learning to trust that “gut feeling” or that “something inside that is trying to tell you …” and know that this inner voice will not guide you wrong. Spend a few minutes each day quieting your mind. No thoughts of what you have done, will do or plan to do, just a few minutes of quiet time focused internally without judgment or analysis.

    1. So remember the first principle is to Listen.

    (Elicit)

    The next principle after learning to listen is to elicit. Did you know that there is an unlimited supply of brilliance inside of you and that you are pure potentiality? There is no end to the amount of enlightened ideas that can come from each and every person.

    By learning to listen you will be forming the necessary foundation to elicit or extract those enlightened ideas from within yourself. This is true education (to extract what is within). I know you have had one of those brilliant moments where you knew the world needed a particular product or service and wished that “someone would make a…” and one month or a few years later you saw the very item that you wished would be made on an infomercial.

    You are a walking, breathing, thinking, gold mine (mind) and somewhere along the line you have allowed your mine (mind) to be shut down or you allowed someone else to gather and extract the precious jewels that are within you by going to work everyday and giving away your talents and jewels for meager earnings or less than full value. You now have been given permission to extract the jewels from your own mind (mine) and for your own use toward the betterment of society. Take back your mine (mind)! Not only is it a terrible thing to waste, but an even worse thing to give away.

    2. The second principle is to Elicit.

    (Ask)

    Our third principle is to ask. Ask what? Ask who? You might ask! J You must first begin by asking yourself questions. No

    Steps for Seriously Wise Online Dating
    Great news!Recent research conducted by companies such as JupiterResearch have found that although there is a decrease in the number of people joining online dating services in general. However, it appears that there is a new focus on catering to the increasing number of serious online daters. Serious daters are those whose intention is to find partners for long-term relationships and even marriage.This is fantastic news and hopefully this trend will continue to grow.Let’s face it. Today’s work environment keeps a lot of us so busy – where do you find time to continually search for a loving partner in all the usual places? Really, there are so many people in highly demanding jobs that it is a challenge finding time for self care and finding a partner.With all the demands on your time, you have probably come to realize at one time or another that life is really quite short. And it is of importance to have found someone who is The One True Love to share some of that quality love time together. After all, loneliness can only be tolerated for short periods.A partner who is compatible and brings effortless joy into a relationship is priceless.Right now there is no better way to enhance the chances of success for a search for The One other than online dating. Online dating has also
    I know you have had one of those brilliant moments where you knew the world needed a particular product or service and wished that “someone would make a…” and one month or a few years later you saw the very item that you wished would be made on an infomercial.

    You are a walking, breathing, thinking, gold mine (mind) and somewhere along the line you have allowed your mine (mind) to be shut down or you allowed someone else to gather and extract the precious jewels that are within you by going to work everyday and giving away your talents and jewels for meager earnings or less than full value. You now have been given permission to extract the jewels from your own mind (mine) and for your own use toward the betterment of society. Take back your mine (mind)! Not only is it a terrible thing to waste, but an even worse thing to give away.

    2. The second principle is to Elicit.

    (Ask)

    Our third principle is to ask. Ask what? Ask who? You might ask! J You must first begin by asking yourself questions. Now I know some of you might find it a bit odd to ask yourself a question, however it is something that you do quite often. Sometimes you might call it figuring things out, pondering, thinking or wondering. But no matter what you call it you are ultimately asking yourself a series of questions to arrive at a decision. What we want to do is to go deeper and ask large chunk questions. What do I mean by “large chunk”? It’s those questions that will gather the largest amount of information from the asking of one question. Here is an example:

    -Small chunk question. Q. Do you like this ezinearticle?

    -Large CHUNK question. Q. How do you feel about this ezinearticle?

    As you can see from the large chunk question, we would gather much more information as a result of asking it, instead of the former question. During the process of escaping the cow pasture of mediocrity the questions you ask yourself and others can determine the speed at which you grow and develop. The object is to become what my good friend Jerry ‘DRhino’ Clark calls a “Charging Rhino”, charging in the jungle of life toward the land of paradise. And you can learn more about becoming a “Charging Rhino” by visiting www.clubrhino.com and becoming a member of one of the most elite groups of people anywhere on the World Wide Web.

    Now ask yourself the following question. What do I need to believe in order to become financially secure? Go ahead, ask again and listen very closely as the inner voice (IV) connects and begins to drill deep into your mind (mine). Now begin to extract the answer from the depths of your being. I know it’s a bit difficult now, however as you learn to maneuver though your mind the process will become easier and automatic. Ask the question again and do so a few more times during the day and allow the answer to come from within you. You will gain a deeper understanding of this principle by simply “Educating Your Expectations” with Artemis Limpert, who is a master coach and motivator.

    Now I want you to ask yourself: What do I need to do to become financially secure? And lastly ask yourself: When do I need to do it? And I will allow you to use a cheat sheet on that last question by giving you the answer: The answer is NOW!

    3. Remember the third principle is to Ask.

    (Repeat)

    I said the answer is NOW! This fourth principle is not as simplistic as one might first think. Not only should you return to the first principle and go through the process again but you should also repeat back to yourself mentally and audibly the answers you get to the large chunk questions you have asked. This will demonstrate your understanding of what you have heard and extracted and will also assist in “coding” the answers into your subconscious.

    Repeat! Now I want you to identify someone that you really admire and whose life was or is a great blessing and benefit to society. If you have trouble finding someone I suggest you check out the “Standing on the Shoulder of Giants” audio series, which is literally bursting at the seams with interviews of very admirable people. No matter what area of life this person impacted or whether anyone else might find them “great” or not isn’t the point, I want you to identify someone that you admire and whose certain way you would like to incorporate into your life. Next I want you to find out as much about this person as you can. Such as where they were born, childhood events, hardships, trials, triumphs etc. And I want you to attempt to identify an event or series of events that you feel might have contributed to this person adopting that certain way about them that you most admire.

    Once you have done this you should then go through your life and find any circumstances you can where you could have adopted a similar “certain way” as a result of the circumstance in your life. Repeat this process for each and every positive trait that you find in others that you wish to hold. Repeat the successful actions of successful people and you will become successful.

    4. So remember the fourth principle is to Repeat.

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