8. No matter what they say or do, you live happily.

Whiners live in a world which revolves around themselves. They subconsciously (often unbeknownst to themselves or at least so they act) seek to get you to rework your life to serve them. Whiners are very self-righteous and proud people. They somehow feel they have a right to interrupt everyone to get their needs and wants met. Whiners love to be worshipped, waited on, and attended to. Therefore don't you allow yourself to be sucked into their world. Stay single-minded, safe, and happy in yourself alone regardless of how they continually drone.

9. When they disrespect you, walk away and remove yourself.

Never let anyone disrespect you no matter how close they are to you. Though you may not be able to demand respect, you certainly don't have to give your self-respect away. Uphold yourself and never be swayed by anyone else no matter how slic

You cannot be a winner if you're frequently associating with whiners. If you seemingly have no way out due to working or living conditions, here are 10 Commandments to win with whiners.

1. When they whine and complain, give thanks and praise.

For every word whiners utter to voice a complain, you equally give thanks and praise. Be thankful and grateful. Gratefulness precedes being great in life. Praise your Creator for every blessing and challenge, realizing there is something to be learned from every situation. Thanks and praises enlarges your personhood to tackle any problem you face. Therefore don't let the noise and negativity of a whiner dwarf and diminish you inwardly. Arise boldly and give thanks continually.

2. When they moan and groan, don't flinch or change your tone.

Many are they throughout the earth who moan and groan unnecessarily. Most of what people complain about is trivial, miniscule, and not meaningful. Whiners are unappreciative and therefore are quick to depreciate every situation. Don't be their problem solver. Let them learn to inwardly tap their own intuition and discover their own solution.

3. When they freak out and fret, don't break a sweat.

Whiners have very little self-control. That means they are emotionally sporadic, dramatic, and all over the map. At first it can be a bit nerve racking being around them, if not entirely exhausting. Nevertheless you must learn to harness and patiently possess your own soul, lest they inwardly invade and violate yours. Stay cool and continue with what you've got to do. Whiners are purposefully frantic as this is a planned antic and attempt to get something from you.

4. When they panic and purport a crisis, don't be alarmed.

Whiners like to panic and continually purport a crisis to get your attention and assistance in a multiplicity of miniscule situations. Like the proverbial drama queen, the whiner likes to be the center of attention and platformed perpetually like a princess.

Usually what the whiner deems a crisis is nothing of the sort. Let lonely and lazy whiners work through their mess and matters. Others you will encourage them to be pathetic and perpetually create a crisis.

5. When they explode as a means to manipulate, don't deviate.

Whiners, when they don't get their way, usually hit a breaking point. Shortly after reaching their breaking point comes an explosion. The explosion has a twofold purpose: 1. To enable them to vent and release their internal tension; and 2. To exert their influence over you to attempt to draw you back into their world, whereby you can attend to their needs.

Emotional outbursts and explosions are nothing more than manipulation attempts, which you should not yield to, nor be persuaded by. Don't deviate from your daily direction, intention, and course of action. Let the whiner stand on their own two feet. As for you, live your life without guilt, remorse, or shame.

6. When they have a pity party, don't attend.

The whiner is out of control and without your help, their world is less orderly. Since the whiner is out of sync and sorts, they continually lach onto whoever is close for support. Actually what the whiner most needs is time alone to sort through their emotions and get themselves together internally. You propping and holding them up is not helping them any, nor is it good for you the enabler.

7. When they assassinate your character, don't listen and internalize their negativity.

When whiners cannot successfully manipulate you, they will immediately attack and criticize you. This is an admission that they have been unable thus far to control you. Through character assassination they seek to put their emotional hooks in you and reconnect in a strangely perverse way. Don't succumb to their unfounded criticisms designed to intimidate and manipulate.

8. No matter what they say or do, you live happily.

Whiners live in a world which revolves around themselves. They subconsciously (often unbeknownst to themselves or at least so they act) seek to get you to rework your life to serve them. Whiners are very self-righteous and proud people. They somehow feel they have a right to interrupt everyone to get their needs and wants met. Whiners love to be worshipped, waited on, and attended to. Therefore don't you allow yourself to be sucked into their world. Stay single-minded, safe, and happy in yourself alone regardless of how they continually drone.

9. When they disrespect you, walk away and remove yourself.

Never let anyone disrespect you no matter how close they are to you. Though you may not be able to demand respect, you certainly don't have to give your self-respect away. Uphold yourself and never be swayed by anyone else no matter how slick

3. When they freak out and fret, don't break a sweat.

Whiners have very little self-control. That means they are emotionally sporadic, dramatic, and all over the map. At first it can be a bit nerve racking being around them, if not entirely exhausting. Nevertheless you must learn to harness and patiently possess your own soul, lest they inwardly invade and violate yours. Stay cool and continue with what you've got to do. Whiners are purposefully frantic as this is a planned antic and attempt to get something from you.

4. When they panic and purport a crisis, don't be alarmed.

Whiners like to panic and continually purport a crisis to get your attention and assistance in a multiplicity of miniscule situations. Like the proverbial drama queen, the whiner likes to be the center of attention and platformed perpetually like a princess.

Usually what the whiner deems a crisis is nothing of the sort. Let lonely and lazy whiners work through their mess and matters. Others you will encourage them to be pathetic and perpetually create a crisis.

5. When they explode as a means to manipulate, don't deviate.

Whiners, when they don't get their way, usually hit a breaking point. Shortly after reaching their breaking point comes an explosion. The explosion has a twofold purpose: 1. To enable them to vent and release their internal tension; and 2. To exert their influence over you to attempt to draw you back into their world, whereby you can attend to their needs.

Emotional outbursts and explosions are nothing more than manipulation attempts, which you should not yield to, nor be persuaded by. Don't deviate from your daily direction, intention, and course of action. Let the whiner stand on their own two feet. As for you, live your life without guilt, remorse, or shame.

6. When they have a pity party, don't attend.

The whiner is out of control and without your help, their world is less orderly. Since the whiner is out of sync and sorts, they continually lach onto whoever is close for support. Actually what the whiner most needs is time alone to sort through their emotions and get themselves together internally. You propping and holding them up is not helping them any, nor is it good for you the enabler.

7. When they assassinate your character, don't listen and internalize their negativity.

When whiners cannot successfully manipulate you, they will immediately attack and criticize you. This is an admission that they have been unable thus far to control you. Through character assassination they seek to put their emotional hooks in you and reconnect in a strangely perverse way. Don't succumb to their unfounded criticisms designed to intimidate and manipulate.

8. No matter what they say or do, you live happily.

Whiners live in a world which revolves around themselves. They subconsciously (often unbeknownst to themselves or at least so they act) seek to get you to rework your life to serve them. Whiners are very self-righteous and proud people. They somehow feel they have a right to interrupt everyone to get their needs and wants met. Whiners love to be worshipped, waited on, and attended to. Therefore don't you allow yourself to be sucked into their world. Stay single-minded, safe, and happy in yourself alone regardless of how they continually drone.

9. When they disrespect you, walk away and remove yourself.

Never let anyone disrespect you no matter how close they are to you. Though you may not be able to demand respect, you certainly don't have to give your self-respect away. Uphold yourself and never be swayed by anyone else no matter how slic

Usually what the whiner deems a crisis is nothing of the sort. Let lonely and lazy whiners work through their mess and matters. Others you will encourage them to be pathetic and perpetually create a crisis.

5. When they explode as a means to manipulate, don't deviate.

Whiners, when they don't get their way, usually hit a breaking point. Shortly after reaching their breaking point comes an explosion. The explosion has a twofold purpose: 1. To enable them to vent and release their internal tension; and 2. To exert their influence over you to attempt to draw you back into their world, whereby you can attend to their needs.

Emotional outbursts and explosions are nothing more than manipulation attempts, which you should not yield to, nor be persuaded by. Don't deviate from your daily direction, intention, and course of action. Let the whiner stand on their own two feet. As for you, live your life without guilt, remorse, or shame.

6. When they have a pity party, don't attend.

The whiner is out of control and without your help, their world is less orderly. Since the whiner is out of sync and sorts, they continually lach onto whoever is close for support. Actually what the whiner most needs is time alone to sort through their emotions and get themselves together internally. You propping and holding them up is not helping them any, nor is it good for you the enabler.

7. When they assassinate your character, don't listen and internalize their negativity.

When whiners cannot successfully manipulate you, they will immediately attack and criticize you. This is an admission that they have been unable thus far to control you. Through character assassination they seek to put their emotional hooks in you and reconnect in a strangely perverse way. Don't succumb to their unfounded criticisms designed to intimidate and manipulate.

8. No matter what they say or do, you live happily.

Whiners live in a world which revolves around themselves. They subconsciously (often unbeknownst to themselves or at least so they act) seek to get you to rework your life to serve them. Whiners are very self-righteous and proud people. They somehow feel they have a right to interrupt everyone to get their needs and wants met. Whiners love to be worshipped, waited on, and attended to. Therefore don't you allow yourself to be sucked into their world. Stay single-minded, safe, and happy in yourself alone regardless of how they continually drone.

9. When they disrespect you, walk away and remove yourself.

Never let anyone disrespect you no matter how close they are to you. Though you may not be able to demand respect, you certainly don't have to give your self-respect away. Uphold yourself and never be swayed by anyone else no matter how slic

6. When they have a pity party, don't attend.

The whiner is out of control and without your help, their world is less orderly. Since the whiner is out of sync and sorts, they continually lach onto whoever is close for support. Actually what the whiner most needs is time alone to sort through their emotions and get themselves together internally. You propping and holding them up is not helping them any, nor is it good for you the enabler.

7. When they assassinate your character, don't listen and internalize their negativity.

When whiners cannot successfully manipulate you, they will immediately attack and criticize you. This is an admission that they have been unable thus far to control you. Through character assassination they seek to put their emotional hooks in you and reconnect in a strangely perverse way. Don't succumb to their unfounded criticisms designed to intimidate and manipulate.

8. No matter what they say or do, you live happily.

Whiners live in a world which revolves around themselves. They subconsciously (often unbeknownst to themselves or at least so they act) seek to get you to rework your life to serve them. Whiners are very self-righteous and proud people. They somehow feel they have a right to interrupt everyone to get their needs and wants met. Whiners love to be worshipped, waited on, and attended to. Therefore don't you allow yourself to be sucked into their world. Stay single-minded, safe, and happy in yourself alone regardless of how they continually drone.

9. When they disrespect you, walk away and remove yourself.

Never let anyone disrespect you no matter how close they are to you. Though you may not be able to demand respect, you certainly don't have to give your self-respect away. Uphold yourself and never be swayed by anyone else no matter how slic

8. No matter what they say or do, you live happily.

Whiners live in a world which revolves around themselves. They subconsciously (often unbeknownst to themselves or at least so they act) seek to get you to rework your life to serve them. Whiners are very self-righteous and proud people. They somehow feel they have a right to interrupt everyone to get their needs and wants met. Whiners love to be worshipped, waited on, and attended to. Therefore don't you allow yourself to be sucked into their world. Stay single-minded, safe, and happy in yourself alone regardless of how they continually drone.

9. When they disrespect you, walk away and remove yourself.

Never let anyone disrespect you no matter how close they are to you. Though you may not be able to demand respect, you certainly don't have to give your self-respect away. Uphold yourself and never be swayed by anyone else no matter how slick their tongue may be. Walk away when people devalue and demean you. Such a person has no right to you, your time, resources, or assistance.

10. Remember it is not your job to play God and fix the whiner's problems.

The whiner's biggest problem is their bad attitude, powerless perception, and internal agitation. Frustration is the father to progress. Therefore let them sort through their own mess. Don't bend over backwards for them and cater to their every whim.

Let the whiner live their own life and fix their own matters. Otherwise the whiner will work you for a lifetime to pander to their every pressing problem, which will drive you crazy and send you to an early grave.

The uneasiness within a whiner is the cause for their discontentment and peevishness. Nevertheless they must stand forth and fix their own inner world. The whiner will always murmur and complain as long as you choose to listen and comply.

Say no to the self-absorbed whiner and the lie which they live. Tell the snivelling ingrate to get straight and stop the noise. Apply these 10 steps and take away the whiner's emotional toys by which they terrorize.