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Suggest You - Why a Positive Goal Works
Offshore banking simply means to have your bank accounts in a bank outside your own country. It is therefore easy to find offshore banks that offer exactly the same services as you would expect from a bank in your own city.All offshore banks will of course let you deposit and withdraw money. Offshore banks normally issue credit cards to help you do so. A credit card from an offshore bank works just like any other credit card and it can often be used in ATMs around the world.In addition, an offshore bank would typically offer the following services to its private customers:<
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Paris Hilton’s dancing on tables and generally acting drunk and unruly at her recent birthday party is an interesting phenomenon. Paris Hilton who has absolutely no claim to fame, manages to be a celebrity of high ranking. I think that Paris Hilton, even though one could write her off as just another blond bimbo, has worked out that the more she gets drunk, dances on tables and delivers any other semi-scandalous activity, the better her publicity rankings. If she were a demure little rich girl, nobody would bother over her. This notoriety is what allows her to host a TV show as her publicity ma
1)I am not going to run slower than 3 hours in my marathon
2)I am going to run faster than 3 hours in my marathon
Both sound the same, but may end up providing very different outcomes. You see, just about any goal can be phrased in a positive way or a negative way, and it is always the positive ways that will be the most effective.
The first reason for this is that it is practically impossible for us to think of a negative concept without referring to the positive side first. Just try it. Close your eyes and imagine a plate without a hamburger on it. If you are anything like me, you will first automatically think of a plate with a hamburger and then have to edit the picture mentally in order to arrive at a plate without a hamburger. That is all messy cranial computation and wasted effort. If your goal requires you to reverse the image every time you think about it then it will be much less efficient and effective. This is the primary reason why these next two possible versions of the same goal will yield very different results:
1)I will not feel stressed at the start line of my next marathon
2)I will feel relaxed at the start line of my next marathon
The first one will need some mental gymnastics so that you can imagine what “not feeling stress” is like, but the second one is actually a direct path. It is easy to imagine feeling relaxed. The end result is really the same image but the second, positive, goal is easier to visualize. A more direct path is more efficient and when you understand that you will be trying to vividly recall the images associated with your goal many times at varying levels of emotional intensity, then the most direct image is the best image.
The second reason that a positively phrased goal is more effective is that you can avoid any reference to the negative images you are trying to avoid. In the example above, even when I have finally twisted around the image of what not feeling stressed is all about, I will still have landed on the concept of “stress” for some amount of time. Even if logically, I understand that it is stress that I am trying to avoid, the word and concept of stress still pops up in front of my mind and will inevitably affect my future performance. The perfect example that you may have seen or experienced yourself is when you are driving your car.
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We have a very ancient saying, "The more God, the more Devil. The more Flesh the more Worms. The more property, the more anxiety. The more control of negative energies, the more negative energies that need control." The Abbods of AmelMeditation Energy Enhancement Apprentice Level 1. Initiation 3. The Grounding of Negative Energies.The Fulcrum point, the evolutionary Initiation we are learning about here is the Earth Connection using the guided meditation, the first formula of Alchemy of Hermes Trismegistus, V.I.T.R.I.O.L.That of when the child was i
The first reason for this is that it is practically impossible for us to think of a negative concept without referring to the positive side first. Just try it. Close your eyes and imagine a plate without a hamburger on it. If you are anything like me, you will first automatically think of a plate with a hamburger and then have to edit the picture mentally in order to arrive at a plate without a hamburger. That is all messy cranial computation and wasted effort. If your goal requires you to reverse the image every time you think about it then it will be much less efficient and effective. This is the primary reason why these next two possible versions of the same goal will yield very different results:
1)I will not feel stressed at the start line of my next marathon
2)I will feel relaxed at the start line of my next marathon
The first one will need some mental gymnastics so that you can imagine what “not feeling stress” is like, but the second one is actually a direct path. It is easy to imagine feeling relaxed. The end result is really the same image but the second, positive, goal is easier to visualize. A more direct path is more efficient and when you understand that you will be trying to vividly recall the images associated with your goal many times at varying levels of emotional intensity, then the most direct image is the best image.
The second reason that a positively phrased goal is more effective is that you can avoid any reference to the negative images you are trying to avoid. In the example above, even when I have finally twisted around the image of what not feeling stressed is all about, I will still have landed on the concept of “stress” for some amount of time. Even if logically, I understand that it is stress that I am trying to avoid, the word and concept of stress still pops up in front of my mind and will inevitably affect my future performance. The perfect example that you may have seen or experienced yourself is when you are driving your car.
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Jealous scenario: The two of you are seated in a restaurant. She is looking like her usual sexy self and you marvel at the fact that you're with the hottest woman in the room. Everything is going great until a model wannabe makes his way through the crowd and stops at your table. Your lady looks up and is smitten to see her former flame. As she introduces you to the gentleman, you try to maintain a smile while shaking hands.They continue to exchange friendly words and you sit idly by while your blood boils to levels that may or may not result in his body being flung over to the dessert c
1)I will not feel stressed at the start line of my next marathon
2)I will feel relaxed at the start line of my next marathon
The first one will need some mental gymnastics so that you can imagine what “not feeling stress” is like, but the second one is actually a direct path. It is easy to imagine feeling relaxed. The end result is really the same image but the second, positive, goal is easier to visualize. A more direct path is more efficient and when you understand that you will be trying to vividly recall the images associated with your goal many times at varying levels of emotional intensity, then the most direct image is the best image.
The second reason that a positively phrased goal is more effective is that you can avoid any reference to the negative images you are trying to avoid. In the example above, even when I have finally twisted around the image of what not feeling stressed is all about, I will still have landed on the concept of “stress” for some amount of time. Even if logically, I understand that it is stress that I am trying to avoid, the word and concept of stress still pops up in front of my mind and will inevitably affect my future performance. The perfect example that you may have seen or experienced yourself is when you are driving your car.
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A mortgage is a method by which individuals or businesses can buy residential or commercial property without paying the full value upfront. The borrower, the person buying the real estate by paying a part of the total money on a contract basis, is often called the mortgager. The borrower or the mortgager then uses a mortgage to pledge real property to the lender, who is more than often called the mortgagee. It is usually put forward in the shape of a security against the debt (also called hypothecation) for the rest of the value of the property.Meanwhile, taking care of one’s health is n
The second reason that a positively phrased goal is more effective is that you can avoid any reference to the negative images you are trying to avoid. In the example above, even when I have finally twisted around the image of what not feeling stressed is all about, I will still have landed on the concept of “stress” for some amount of time. Even if logically, I understand that it is stress that I am trying to avoid, the word and concept of stress still pops up in front of my mind and will inevitably affect my future performance. The perfect example that you may have seen or experienced yourself is when you are driving your car.
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I recently watched a fellow motorist lose his temper with another driver who had cut him up on the motorway. He made all kinds of rude gestures with his hands, was clearly shouting expletives at the top of his voice and generally going red in the face! To the onlooker (i.e. Me) this was actually quite funny to watch and I had a quiet little giggle to myself at his expense.But it did get me thinking. It's not unusual for my clients to talk to me in terms of anger - they're angry at whoever they perceived caused them to be the way they are; it might be parents, a spouse, the boss or the wh
Near my house in Australia, I was driving down a quiet country road with green grassy fields heading off into the distance on both sides. To the left were a set of tyre tracks heading off the road where a speeding car had obviously lost control on a corner. The tyre tracks were fresh and deep into the soil as the car had headed off the road into the nearly empty paddock. The only thing in the paddock was a single tree standing proudly in the middle. The tyre tracks led straight to the base of the tree, where there had obviously been a serious impact and a lot of bending metal. The car had been towed away but the story was easy to read.
The car was obviously traveling fast as it left the road and the driver saw the tree and realized that he would be OK as long as he missed it. His thoughts must have gone something like this:
“Oh no I ‘m going too fast…look out I’m off the road…hang on I’m in an empty paddock…As long as I don’t hit that tree I’ll be OK…Just steer to the left of the tree…Not so close to the tree…I have to miss the tree…the tree will be very hard…I mustn’t hit the tree…the tree is coming very close…the tree is hard to avoid…the tree…the tree….oh no the tree…..crash”
The same happens if you are hammering in a nail. If you focus on the nail you will hit it every time. If you focus on not hitting your finger, then you will often miss the nail and hit your finger and you will assume that you are a hopeless carpenter.
When your goals are phrased in a negative way you risk achieving exactly what you are trying to avoid. Phrase the same goal without reference to its negative side and your focus will be undivided. None of your goals or the images you associate with them should be phrased in a negative way. If they are all phrased positively you are on your way to success. A carefully composed positive goal that you often refer to will send you on your way. When you flesh out your goals with meaningful and vibrant imagery the goals will carry you there. When you break these carefully composed, image laden goals down into useful practical a
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